#Note/Hub #Communication #Collaboration/Creative #Biases/ConfirmationBias
As someone who often clings to my own ideas, I've encountered moments where my insistence on subjectively correct notions clashed with objective realities. This has, at times, led to frustration among friends and coworkers, especially during discussions involving new ideas or unfamiliar facts. Despite my efforts to verify information post-discussion, the initial negativity had already impacted my relationships.
During a conversation with my mentor, Ross, I was introduced to the concept of ["Yes, and..."](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yes%2C_and...), a principle pivotal in building a strong foundation of trust within teams. Originating in improvisational theater, "Yes, and..." involves an improviser accepting another improviser's statement ("Yes,") and then building upon it ("and...") in a continuous collaborative loop. This improvisational collaboration, akin to a type of [[Understanding Stigmergy|stigmergic collaboration]], differs by employing an abstract, rather than a concrete, environment for indirect coordination. Beyond theater, "Yes, and..." is also employed in brainstorming sessions to foster idea sharing and creative development.
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Implementing "Yes, and..." in my daily interactions has opened doors to numerous conversations and unexplored ideas. This principle isn't about passive agreement or superficial additions; it's a mindset shift from "listening to refute" to "listening to understand." We often fall prey to [confirmation bias](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias), seeking information that aligns with our beliefs to minimize [cognitive dissonance](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance). "Yes, and..." has taught me to embrace ideas, explore them, envision possibilities, and importantly, to reserve judgment for the commitment evaluation stage.
I've come to view the "Yes, and..." principle as an invaluable tool in everyday life, fostering a positive and constructive environment that encourages idea development and creative collaboration.